Hi Forgotten,

I completely understand your position. I have been with the same guy for eight years. He did break up with me two years ago because I have children who took time away from him. Anyway, I met a younger guy--eight years younger-- and had the time of my life for about a year. The relationship eventually dissolved and I got back together with my eight year man. Anyhow, for a while it appeared things would be better, but it's back to the same old boring crap. He loves staying home. I love going out. He is boring. I love adventure. This past weekend I got together with another guy ten years younger than I am and had amazing sex. Now, it's all I can think about. So the question I keep asking myself is, "Is it about the sex or is it about the relationship?" I don't really know the answer, but I sure am horny and restless.

Tell me more about your situation. I'd like to hear.