Yep, what did I tell you ladies, he told me if I take him to child support that I can expect him to do nothing from my son. I decided to ask him one more time this morning for the 50.00 and he had the nerve to ask me why do I need it. Ae you kidding me? He asked me are you paying your bills with it? I could not hold back, ladies I have had enough. I told that muthaf@&ka, that 200.00 a month dont do shit for me! It dont pay my rent, lights gas, cable, food, should I continue?
I had to remind him that I work everyday and that the money he give me is for his sons benifit. I had to ask him what makes him think he is exempt from providing finacially for his son? Its the law and I did not make it. He had the nerve to tell me that this is stressing him out. I said no, that other woman with 4 kids and one on the way is stressing you out. I have been far from stressful.
When school starts back, he said I will have to find a way to have my son picked up because he was not doing it anymore, I explained to him that he is not hurting me he is hurting himself and my son, and if it is worth you loosing a relationship with your son then that show what kind of man you really are. You know how us moms do it, we do it and we make it work. I am tired and when I say tired I mean tired!



















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Login or register to post a commentI hate to say it but...
I hate to say it but if that's the kind of man he is, maybe your son is better off without his influence? Its sad to watch a son grow up with out a father, but its tragic to watch a son turn into his father.
Cher Carter "Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish" CEO Carters-company.com
I know a couple of people in
I know a couple of people in your situation.
Sometimes you just want to tell them to relinquish all rights to the kid since they don't want to take care of the child.
Unfortunately, this is how men get dragged through the court system and because he has so many other kids, you can pretty much count that you won't be getting much from him unless he is making a nice six figure salary - which doesn't sound like the case.
Best i can tell you is to assume you are a single parent and do what you need to do to take care of your business. Men like that aren't worth the time or the effort.
xoxo Anje
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best" -
Marilyn Monroe
No, my son is the only one.
No, my son is the only one. The new women has 4 other kids by someone else. So yes my son will be getting the bulk of the funds, this is why I have to get the ball rolling because this other woman looks likes she is a Baby Momma for a living (She does not work). Sorry for any confusion, but my son is the only child he has for now.
Aaah - well... in that case!
Aaah - well... in that case! lol
Don't ask him for anything - Go right to court and let them get it from him. From what my friend told me, you can tell the court how much he earns at his job (even estimated), and any side projects, any new purchases etc and be sure to let them know the last time he gave you anything - cash or kind- for your son.
They will back date his payments and he will have to cough it up. Tell him don't worry - they offer payment plans!
xoxo Anje
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best" -
Marilyn Monroe
I have two words for your
I have two words for your ex, garnished wages. I will forever be disgusted by men who avoid responsibility with their own children. It is deplorable. Not only that, but I can't stand how some men have no idea what exactly goes into raising a child mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. I don't even have kids and I know that $200. a month ain't sh*t! And why would it matter if you WERE paying your bills with it? Doesn't his child need electricity, a roof over his head, water, etc??? UGH!
I feel for you and your baby. Take his ass to court.
"I paint my own reality." -Frida Kahlo