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I've spoken with a number of women who are single, or newly-single (read: recently divorced) who are faced with a dilemma this year. They may have just filled their own stocking for Christmas, and as a bonus they are now heading out to paint the town on New Year's Eve... stag.
There is nothing at all wrong with being on your own for the holidays. But for some ladies, New Year's Eve sans date is a new thing. For those women, I offer these suggestions:
 

• Singles with singles. If you have a number of friends who are married or with a partner/date, it might be a good idea to hang out with people who are also single (think girls night out, but without any "rules"...). No need to make yourself uncomfortable with couples kissing at the stroke of midnight. 
• Do The Crawl. Go to more than one party. The change of atmosphere will allow variety, as well as offer protection: if one party ends up mostly couples, you won't be stuck as the only single woman... you can move on. (Just be sure you are with a designated driver or have a taxi service on-call as you move from party to party) 
• Throw your own bash. Forget the whole party and pressure thing, and host a party yourself. Cocktails, movies, or a game of Guitar Hero might be just what Dr. Romance ordered. 
• Choose a friend. Instead of standing alone kissless when the bell sounds the start of 2009, choose your bubbly partner ahead of time. A friend or relative is perfect to pop the champagne with and will keep your head clear.

originally posted at http://www.theproblemismen.com/tpwwim-home/2008/12...