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i am happily married with our daily routine of cooking, laundry and kids.
I notice a guy at work that everyone seems to think he is hot stuff. I think he's cute and a bit sexy, not all that...LOL
However I notice that his friendly hi and bye are being more and more intense. I am noticing he even passes by my office to say hello or bring me breakfast. I was thinking nothing of it until he told me last week I make him nervous. I was naive not to realize what he was trying to tell me.
I am happily married like i said before however I like the extra attention I am getting from the guy at work. He is cute and he allows me to feel "sexy" again. I feel like a high school kid when I am with him because we flirt and we both know its a no-no....
I have NO intentions in going any further with this however i am having fun.
Am I playing with fire?
Should I not play with co-workers.
Should I worry of someone telling my husband.
I am only having fun....
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Login or register to post a commentIn my opinion, be friendly
In my opinion, be friendly toward him but make it clear you don't want an affair. I think everyone likes feeling sexy and that spark of nervousness, but is it really worth it in the end? Perhaps try to spark up the relationship between you and your husband.
"Be the change you wish to see in the world." - Gandhi
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We all need attention
We all need attention sometimes, it makes us feel good about ourselves. It makes us feel sexy and attractive and wanted.
A little flirting is not hurtful to anyone, but if you want this "friendship" keep on growing, you will have to be frank with your husband and keep the distance from the hottie at work.
And really, if you know exactly what you want, things are so much easier...regardless what you will do.
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My only thoughts are if your husband was doing this would you be upset. If not then you're ok. Have you ever mentioned this man to your husband? A lot of times (most times) men are doing the same thing and understand that it means nothing. Now my husband, nope! I'd kill him and he'd kill me but it's equal. If you wouldn't mind him doing it or he has done it before then 'hey!' put on a little more lip gloss BUT if it's something that would really hurt him, regardless of how insignificant re-think the situation.
Just my thoughts
yea it's all good
just as long as you know your limit who says a little flirting or getting a little attention is so bad
-Jessica Trev