How did sex become such an uncomfortable topic?

Slumber_Parties... member for 16 weeks 4 days Send a message

So a year and a half ago when my co-worker Getine asked me if I had ever been to a sex party, my eyes popped out of my head. I wasn't too sure what she was asking me..She then told me that once a year, she had a sex party consultant come to her house to share the products they had for sale. I was amazed. I had no idea such things existed. But why did I think that? After all the sex that's all over the place, the tv, the internet, the 1800 numbers, the magazines..why would the thought of a "party" discussing sex surprise me?
Probably because it's something we're taught and made to feel should be kept private, like in our computer room at 2 in the morning, clearing out the history to get rid of all traces.
I know growing up, I felt that it was something that only "dirty" people did. Why? Because every time a sexual scene on tv came about, my parents would turn the channel or tell me to leave the room. Because I wasn't allowed to wear make-up or tank tops and shorts until I was 16. Because I wasn't allowed to date until I was 17. So that lead me to believe that sex was something that shouldn't happen. Now did my parent's want me to feel this way? Probably not. No doubt they didn't want me experimenting with sex, but I don't think it was their intentions to make me feel like it was something I should never do.
Anyways, a few months ago, I got an invitation from my old co-worker, inviting me to a SEX PARTY! I was kinda of apprehensive, but I went anyways. Curiosity got the best of me.
When the show started, I was mortified. I was with a bunch of women I didn't know, and some stranger is standing around, talking about vibrators..g-spots..orgasms. I wanted to die the first 20 minutes. Then I started thinking.. "Wow, this women knows what she's talking about." And I looked around the room, and all eyes were on this lady. These women wanted to listen to everything she had to say.

Maybe they were told that masturbation was wrong. Maybe they needed some information because sex was a close subject growing up. I realized that I wasn't the only one. And I wanted to do what this lady was doing.

How many of you would be afraid to ask your girlfriend what to do when you can't reach the big O? How many of you would be afraid to ask your gyno how to locate your g-spot (yes ladies, medically proven, well all have one!)? But for some reason, these ladies felt comfortable asking this lady about these problems in a confidential room. Not only did she answer these questions, she gave them a product to help their problems! So I decided to suck it up and answered 'YES' when she asked me if I ever thought about doing what she was doing. I was handed a little (more like huge) black bag with my order in it, and a red folder with information about signing up. Two days later, I was a Slumber Parties distributor.
I love the fact that I can teach women about their bodies, answer questions that they were too afraid to find out, and help them bring some kind of spark back to their dull relationship of 15 years.
Did you know that women should be having 200 orgasms a year? Most don't NEARLY have as many as 50. To have what they consider a "healthy" sexual relationship, you should be having sex 2-4 times a week. Most of us don't even kiss our significant others that many times, let alone have sex.
My job is all about empowering women to take charge of their lives and take charge in the bedroom. I want to share my job with others. Whether it be having a party for them, or signing them up to manage their own business.
Here's to 200 orgasms a year!

Comments

Login or register to post a comment

Surprisingly those

Surprisingly those statistics are true. I couldn't imagine that. All of my friends are in good relationships with their significant others. This is a startling statistic. I wonder how many are sexually suffering. I know that their are a lot of women who struggle with sex. That is why Sex and the City was so popular because so many women could relate to atleast one of the characters and her dating/relationship experience.

Although I don't really sit around and count how many times I orgasm in a week let alone in a month let alone in a year and I don't think my friends count their orgasms either, I know what healthy sex life means to me. I think we all have our own gauge. Smiling

Great post though.