All the bitching, complaining and placing blame on the government about this economy is really beginning to get on my nerves. We Americans have become a society driven by instant gratification and entitlement! Whatever happened to “ask not what your country can do for you…” Before we throw another stone of blame at this party or that party for our housing, employment, healthcare, fuel and credit woes, we should all take a good long look in the mirror and ask ourselves:
Did I purchase more of a house than I could really afford?
Did I put down a reasonable amount of money for my house?
Did I knowingly take a risk in real estate investments? (Don’t kid yourself; any investment has a level of risk)
Do I have at least three to six months of bill payments in a savings account?
Do I put an acceptable amount of money into a retirement account?
Am I paying more for a car than I should be paying?
Is my car a gas guzzler?
How many credit cards do I have?
Do I owe more than 50% on those cards?
Do I have to have all the latest in gadgets, technology, fashion, or cosmetic surgery?
Do I pay for them with credit?
Do I put 100% effort into the job that I am paid to do?
Do I take care of my personal health and wellbeing?
Do I smoke?
Am I considered to be obese?
Do I exercise and visit my doctor regularly?
Am I making a reasonable effort to “reduce my eco footprint”?
Do I turn off the water when I brush my teeth?
Do I recycle?
Do I purchase recycled/"green" products?
Do I actively support organizations that I am passionate about (either with time, donations or cash)?
Am I making any effort to communicate my needs and concerns with my local, state and federal government representatives?
Hey, I’ll be honest – I can’t give the correct answer to several of these. And I’m sure millions of Americans can’t either. Is it fair to put 100% of the blame on the government for what is wrong in this country ? Not in my humble opinion. We can’t expect Obama or McCain to successfully change government and fix the problems we’re facing in this country if WE are not willing to get off our comfortable couches in front of our new 42” plasma HDTVs (all paid for with credit) and take responsibility for our own actions! As Mom would to say: “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones!”



















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Login or register to post a commentDid I purchase more of a
Did I purchase more of a house than I could really afford?
No
Did I put down a reasonable amount of money for my house?
n/a
Did I knowingly take a risk in real estate investments?
(Don’t kid yourself; any investment has a level of risk)
No
Do I have at least three to six months of bill payments in a savings account?
Hell no!
Do I put an acceptable amount of money into a retirement account?
Yes
Am I paying more for a car than I should be paying?
Yes
Is my car a gas guzzler?
no
How many credit cards do I have?
2
Do I owe more than 50% on those cards?
Yes
Do I have to have all the latest in gadgets, technology, fashion, or cosmetic surgery?
It depends on who you ask. Cell phone and crappy laptop.
Do I pay for them with credit?
The laptop yes
Do I put 100% effort into the job that I am paid to do?
yes
Do I take care of my personal health and wellbeing?
yes
Do I smoke?
no
Am I considered to be obese?
overweight, not obese
Do I exercise and visit my doctor regularly?
yes
Am I making a reasonable effort to “reduce my eco footprint”?
yes
Do I turn off the water when I brush my teeth?
yes
Do I recycle?
not as much as I should
Do I purchase recycled/"green" products?
yes
Do I actively support organizations that I am passionate about (either with time, donations or cash)?
I usually work in those kinds of organizations.
Am I making any effort to communicate my needs and concerns with my local, state and federal government representatives?
Regularly
All that to say, I think I have every right to bitch and complain about a government that is not holding up their end of the bargain and fucking shit up REAL bad. In addition to the greedy bastards that want free markets with no restrictions or accountability because the people in the middle or on the bottom get screwed the worst.
Bitch! Bitch! Bitch!
I have to agree with BeautyMark, although not for the same reasons.
We do have a lot to bitch about...justifiably. Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac were created to add liquidity to the mortgage markets. The idea was that banks shouldn't have to tie up their own money over the life of fifteen and thirty year mortgages. Congress wanted banks to have the money to lend to ever greater numbers of Americans pursuing the dream of homeownership.
So FM/FM were created to buy mortgages, thereby providing banks with liquidity. Because FM/FM, quasi-governmental agencies, were there to buy the mortgages from them, banks no longer worried about risk. Obviously. If banks could sell the loans to an eager agency, why do the due diligence to make sure the loans were good? The good loans and bad loans--all were sold to FM/FM.
FM/FM then turned those mortgages into mortgage backed securities that were sold all over the world. Because they are quasi-governmental agencies, operating under mandates from Congress, no one saw any risk in buying the securities. After all, the securities were implicitly guaranteed by Uncle Sam.
During the "good years," Congress, both Dems and the GOP encouraged FM/FM to pump more and more money into mortgages.
In an unabashed spirit of partisanship, I'll note that Democratic-controlled Congresses were more active in this regard, mandating FM/FM to buy mortgages in ever greater amounts from low-income people. Here, think of the great economic minds of Barnie Frank, Charles Rangel, and that august senior senator from New York, Chuck Schumer. Also, please note that Fred Raines and Jim Johnson, both prominent Obama supporters, were chairmen of FM. Fred Raines made off with $120 million dollars during his nine year tenure. Johnson made a like amount.
By some estimates, Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac hold eighty percent of all US mortgages. Yes, you read that right. Eighty percent.
This government intrusion into the marketplace removed risk from mortgage lenders and from the buyers of mortgage backed securities. No one in government noticed. No one.
This is not to suggest I don't support the bailout. I do. Without it, we would see a global financial meltdown. The Depression analogy pales against what would happen.
But who is left holding the bag to the tune of $700 billion? (And where did that number come from anyway?)
We are.
So, if you don't mind, I'll go on eating cheeseburgers...and bitching.
We will pay a price either way...
My hubby and I bought a house that we could afford and our mortgage agent was mystified why we wouldn't want a bigger home when we could 'afford' it. But we knew what we wanted to afford. We didn't want the stress of living in fear of a mortage.
But we won't be rewarded for making a good fiscal decision. We (like millions of people) are on the paying end of alot of greed. So we'll be penalized with higher taxes and a weakened retirement plan. Because of GREED.
The mortgage companies were GREEDY and gave anyone a loan.
Big Banks were greedy and allowed the most unethecial loan configurations ever heard of. (why would anyone think an Interest Only loan is good??)
And not the least.. the greedy, competing with the "Joneses" people who HAVE to have the 4 car garage or the Viking commercial range and Brazillian granite counter tops, or the 500sq ft master suite.
I'm proud of my 3 bedroom raised ranch with a Prius in the garage.
America will go broke in their lofted 'bonus rooms' and their Lexus SUV's
My dad always said.. "if you can't save for it and pay cash.. you should NOT have it." My parents are 75 and have never had a car payment, and their house has been paid off since 1993. And neither of them have a college education. And I certainly did not have a deprived childhood.
It's not a matter of being rich.. it's a matter of living within your means.
*whew*
thanks for letting me vent!
More Punishment
In assigning blame, please don't forget the government which consciously distorted the market in order to push consumers to buy mortgages.
Government gave banks incentives to loan. Banks sold mortgages to people on the premise that their asset (their home) would increase in value. (Even homes without four car garages and granite in the kitchen.)
You'll not only be punished by higher taxes, but by an inability to tap into capital of any kind. It won't be available.
You made some good decisions. Good for you. But I'd hesitate to demonize people who listened to lenders, real estate agents, title companies, lawyers and their government--all telling them to buy, buy, buy.
I defintely agree that all
I defintely agree that all those lenders, real estate agents, title companies, and lawyers all had an agenda to push. There are many many facets to this. There were lots of predatory practices, and many people who had hopes of getting into a home when they couldn't before. And I think that needs some investigation and possibly legal action.
The bottom line is that we all are going to pay for the bad decisions of the lenders, real estate agents, title companies, lawyers AND buyers.
Caveat Emptor - 'let the buyer beware'
...preaching to the choir...
Okay, I realize that posting my soapbox comments on this site is like preaching to the choir as Alphawomen are smart, financially responsible, outgoing, outspoken and don’t sit around on comfy couches eating bon-bons all day (maybe at night with a glass of wine, but not all day)! Ladies, you give me hope! ;o)
My point was not to say there we are lacking for subject matter to bitch about – as greed, corruption, poor management, and lack of effective government regulation are causing economic devastation on a grand scale. The comments were more to the point that MANY of the people I hear bitching have made (and continue making) poor choices in their own lives that are contributing to these issues. And, many of these armchair quarterbacks are complaining but not acting. This applies to all issues and not just housing. Huge case in point: Mr. Al Global Warming himself traveling around the world in his private jet and having his motorcade of gas-guzzling large SUVs running in the parking lot waiting for him to finish another speech.
If EVERYONE stopped spending beyond their means, over charging, consuming as if every resource was unlimited, and took better care of their physical and mental health, the impact on healthcare, economic, and environmental issues we are facing today would be huge. I’m simply proposing that in addition to the top-down solutions we are demanding from these presidential candidates, we need to also promote a bottom-up approach to support these solutions. Government can continue to step-in, bail-out and re-distribute wealth from those who manage finances properly to those who do not … but if a great many Americans don’t stop making poor choices, government will be required to keep feeding this beast… we’ll have to keep feeding government… and we will never emerge from this vicious cycle.
I will be the first to admit that there are a few changes I need to make in my house to ensure that in the future I do not contribute to the burden on my fellow tax-paying Alphawomen...get help with my shoe addiction, save more, put more into retirement (although right now I can't even look at my 401k account out of fear).
I could not agree with you
I could not agree with you more on people taking better care of themselves. I look around and see how little people care about themselves and are willing to take medications they don't need and eat food that should never be consumed.........I think it is sad. We are only given one life, one body and to basically run it into the ground without taking preventative thought or care is just disheartening.
I often wonder what our health care system would look like if more people practiced preventative medicine or preventative health care in stead of consuming everything they come across.
Great Post!
XOXO,
Freda
Founder
www.AlphaWomen.com
"Those Who Say It Can't Be Done Need To Get Out Of The Way Of Those Who Are Doing It!"
Great discussion. I was in
Great discussion. I was in the mortgage industry and while now it is easy to say that it was based off of greed, some of it was, but let me tell you I put people in homes that only dreamed of home ownership and I am proud to say they still own their homes. Take for instance a very good Hispanic friend of mine who works his tail off to support his family. He went from renting for many, many years to finally owning a home.
Interest only is a great loan if you know the benefits and you know how to use it correctly. Most of your very saavy investors use interest only loans. You see on an interest only loan you can pay down the mortgage at an accelerated rate, many times in half the time of a fixed mortgage. You apply extra payments your interest goes down and the next month your payment is less than the month before.
Where as on a thirty year fixed if you make extra payments, you still
have the same exact payment next month. The bank doesn't take into
consideration that you are six months ahead of schedule and as a result they expect the same payment or you get penalized. Now think about having 70% to 90% of your equity tied up in your home and you fall sick, or your spouse does and you loose your job and your credit drops and now you can't pay your bills or refinance your home and even though you are ahead of the game by six months you start missing your payments. Guess what? The bank starts to penalize you and if you can't get yourself out of trouble pretty quick they start the foreclosure process. Savvy investors take their money out of their house to keep it liquid or invest in other investments. But they know what they are doing. They maximize their mortgage interest deduction and use the liquidity to make more money.
THIS ISN'T FOR EVERYONE and that was the problem. To many people who didn't understand how these unique products worked in their favor used them wrong or simply didn't care and wanted not only the new house, but the new car, the boat and to travel. No one expected the economy to take a dive and many are crying now.
I never sold option arms but even option arms had some great incentives to them, again the key here is that you understood how to use them. Then you had the forty year fixed which is very similar to an interest only and basically you would be paying three to four times what your home was worth to have that extra cash in hand every month and have the freedom of home ownership.
I could go into twelve months out of foreclosure, citizenship, no money down loans..........truth be told.....many people are in homes and are keeping their homes in spite of this crazy economy. Had we not had the upswing and the false sense of confidence that went with it, many people would never be in homes.
This is NOT just a white collar or blue collar problem, this economy is effecting the wealthy on wall street to because they too bought into the boom and didn't anticipate what was looming at the end. All said and done you can say what you want, many people are in homes because of the creativity of the banks and the lax lending guidelines.
Most of your foreclosures today are from speculative buying or worse when you bought the house you could indeed afford but now suddenly find yourself out of a job. WHAT DO YOU DO? This is happening all across the country as corporations are finding it more and more difficult to stay in business and closing their doors it has a rippling effect down to your hair dresser and nail technician.
I think it is hard for anyone to go from bustling to dead over night. We are all trying to adjust and figure out how to thrive in this new economy. It is here for a while and we all need to open our eyes and figure out how we are going to make it through this down swing and come together to figure out what matters instead of fighting over trivial issues. I completely agree that we need to stop blaming one party over the other and focus on the major issues at hand so we can get out of this economic slump and not spiral down deeper into a major global meltdown.
Great Post!
XOXO,
Freda
Founder
www.AlphaWomen.com
"Those Who Say It Can't Be Done Need To Get Out Of The Way Of Those Who Are Doing It!"
THat's something I've
THat's something I've wondered through all this. How many people have homes now that never would have before the 'relaxed' standards. But if the vast majority of loans of the last decade are NOT in foreclosure.. How is 700 Billion a real number?
Did the banks just lend too much money?? If that's the case, then it doesn't even matter who bought how much or why. The banks were lending money they didn't even have.
Again I wonder... where did 700 billion number come from???
Absolutely Right
You're absolutely right, Freda, on two counts. The looser and more creative standards did put people into homes who would otherwise never have access to them. And kudos to real estate agents who helped them through a daunting process. Nevertheless, enough toxic loans were made against assets declining in value to bring on the crisis.
That said, we do need to figure out how to thrive in what will be a new economy. Credit is going to be an issue for everyone. Corporations are going to downsize and if Obama is elected they'll move overseas. (Look what happened after Sarbanes Oxley. The NYSE lost its status to the London Stock Exchange as the pre-eminent stock exchange in the world. No one wants to be listed here anymore. In another measure of what SOX wrought on business, take a look at the number of new public offerings, that is, new companies going public. They're no where to be seen.)
After the debacle of Carter's presidency when interest rates approached 21%, Reagan slashed taxes across the board. In doing so, he tapped into the enormous productivity and creativity of the American worker and ushered in a period of nearly three decades of prosperity. I don't think either candidate has the wisdom or economic understanding to take such a draconian move. Too bad for us.
(By the way, I don't see "greed" by itself as a sin. I don't work for the fun of it. I work because I'm paid and hope to be paid more. Greed isn't a problem. Lack of oversight, lack of elementary due diligence, isolating buyers and sellers from risk. These are problems.)
Norma, you teach me so much.
Norma, you teach me so much. I love reading your posts! Thank you so much for your insights and thoughts. I really appreciate them! I am new to all of this political stuff and from the sounds of it.......you know your shit! You are a voice I can listen to and relate to. Thanks!
Great Post!
XOXO,
Freda
Founder
www.AlphaWomen.com
"Those Who Say It Can't Be Done Need To Get Out Of The Way Of Those Who Are Doing It!"
Mistakes
Oh, Freda--I've been around a long time and have made more than my share of stupid mistakes. The trick now, as you point out, is for all of us is to figure out how we're going to cope.
This isn't going to be pretty. And we have no leaders who seem to understand what we're facing or how to cope with it.
It's roll up our sleeves time. I suspect yours have been rolled up for a while.
xxx
Thank you for getting at the
Thank you for getting at the heart of the issue. We need to ask what can we give to this great place that we live in. This country has problems but it's time to put aside all the complaining and put out minds to figuring out what we can do to make things better for the people that we work with, live with, and share neighborhoods with. This isn't about political parties or who is to blame but it's about rolling up our sleeves and sharing our energy and insight so we can solve some of these problems that we are faced with. Thank you for the thought provoking blog. I am remaining positive with my 40 employees about the future because getting all bogged down in negatives helps no one. I believe in the flow of creative juices and I am troubled that you don't seem to think that anyone has the ability to give a working structure for this situation.I have been holding on to the faith that something constructive is on the horizon.
Constructive Leaders
I love your optimism. Entrepreneurs by their nature are optimists. I married one. I've become one.
But no, in this context, I'm not optimistic. In the past, America has been truly blessed with leaders who arrived at the right place in the right time. I think of Roosevelt who clearly understood we would have to get into WWII. I think of JFK who ushered in an era of prosperity by reducing the by-then onerous WWII taxes. I think of Reagan who clearly understood basic economic principles.
Our prospective leaders are Barrack Obama and John McCain. Obama proposes to increases taxes across the board, corporate, capital gains, social security, income. Everything. All in the name of social justice.
But history tells us this is not just a bad idea, it's a disastrous one in a time of economic woes. And, make no mistake, we are entering a period which could easily resemble the great depression. In the current climate, if these tax hikes go through, learn to love offal as my grandparents and parents did during the 1930s.
McCain's big solution to the problem is to fire Christopher Cox, chairman of the SEC. Most observers say he is one of the most competent men in Washington. But whether you like Cox or not, firing one man in the context of global insecurity is ridiculous. What a solution!
These are whimpers from men who don't understand the global economy. I'm not an expert, but even I understand more than they do.
So, what does this portend for us? Especially what does this portend for business owners of which you are one? Higher taxes. Hiring freezes. Layoffs. Bankruptcy.
I would put it to you that with the market news today, you are probably delaying any new hires.
I believe in the American people. I believe in our peculiar genius which is the ability to see opportunities and create businesses in a way that is unique in the world. You're an example of that. Freda is another example.
However, how far can you swim with tons of weight on your back? If you employ forty people, you're already familiar with the weight. How much more can you stand? Neither men seem to understand the needs of business, particularly small business, the engine that drives this economy.
No, I'm not optimistic. And, sorry, you shouldn't be either.
I work hard. I pay my taxes.
I work hard. I pay my taxes. I stay out of the ways of legal trouble and try to do things the right way but as usual selon le cliche - the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
The government can't be blamed for everything but in some cases they are enablers. I wish there were a way to pass legislation that says if you've already had 2 kids in the last 3 years that you must be employed at least part time for a 6 month minimum before going back on welfare. The welfare system is not supposed to be considered the state babysitter and provider! What the hell!
Minimum wage in NYC is $7.15. Unless you were living in a homeless shelter, that is likely to get you evicted especially when uncle Sam Snags 25% of your hard earned minimum to fill his greedy pockets.
Saving money - great idea but terrible reality - especially when the cost of healthcare and basic transportation are rising faster than superman's speeding bullet. It is becoming increasingly difficult to continue saving - especially at banks that are going under.
Oh ..for those who don't understand the FDIC rule. You are only protected for up to $100 000 per signer on your bank account. If you had say, $250K in your bank account and you were the only signer, only $100K of that is protected; the rest might as well be considered a donation unless you had two more people on the account.
I say - shove it in your mattress or buy gold - there's a wise commodity!
Times are rough and getting pretty shitty - even Happy hour is getting tricky with the $1 off specials vs half price drinks! Every single purchase I make from Coach or Gucci or Christian Dior reminds me that I am choosing, at this moment not to have children and instead of building a trust fund for my offspring, I am filling my closet with vanity items! Damn skippy.
But I enjoy my choice. Cable tv with premium channels are becoming a luxury.
Let's not forget this new pickle of the Amero Currency to which dear George W. Bush committed the US of these America's. Our new president will definitely have to manage that situation. The value of the US dollar is the lowest that it has ever been in decades - probably since the great depression of the 1930's. The concept of "Amero," is an international currency whereby the American monetary system and our treasury system will become homogeneous with those of Mexico and Canada.
We are not to blame on our own... if anything we are the innocent bystanders in an already very calculated plan.
xoxo Anje
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best"
Marilyn Monroe
Couldn't have said it better
Couldn't have said it better myself! Great perspective Anje. I agree.
Great Post!
XOXO,
Freda
Founder
www.AlphaWomen.com
"Those Who Say It Can't Be Done Need To Get Out Of The Way Of Those Who Are Doing It!"
un-optimistic, innocent bystander
Ladies, you all make very valid and intelligent points. However, if everyone in this country took the position of un-optimistic, innocent bystander, we will certainly face a new-age depression. It’s extremely disappointing that all the elections I’ve been old enough to participate in have consisted of a selection based on the best of lackluster candidates. And, so I find myself here again. If all of us took steps to get our houses in order … as best as we can. Reduce credit debt. Save where we can … even if it is stuffed in our mattresses. Try to maintain good health. We can reduce further burden on this broken economic system. I’m not expecting blind optimism, but hoping that the greater majority of Americans are willing to stand up and contribute rather than accept a role as helpless bystander on the sidelines watching the great collapse.